Friday, May 11, 2018

"How Does He" Meme (Or "She", if that's your thing!)

Eric and I live in a spanking world bubble.  I blog and that's our only outlet. We read and that's our inlet.  It's not like we can have a conversation with the neighbors about it. (By the way, everyone next door is home and recovering.) Yet, there is the curiosity about the "How" of it all.  So, here's a Meme that we made up.  If you are so inclined to share, feel free to jump on board and play along!

1.  How does he let you know a spanking is coming?
Eric is very much into the foreplay and anticipation of a spanking.  Depending on the reason for it, he'll start eluding to what is on his mind.  When he's being subtle, he'll just rest his hands on his belt buckle until he knows I've noticed.  Sometimes he'll text things like, "Amy needs a spanking".  In public, he'll lean into my ear and whisper, "Amy Lynn, you've been a bad girl" and then brush his hand across my behind. And then there are the times when he just flat out grabs the back of my arm and marches me to our room.

2.  How does he choose an implement?
We have an array of implements for Eric to choose from but I don't think he has a formula for when he uses what.  In the heat of the moment, he'll go for whatever is closest. (Usually the cheese board in the kitchen or his belt.)  When I need to feel loved, he'll just use his hand.  When he really wants to get his point across, he prefers a small leather strap.  When we are being playful, Eric will break out the old school stick or the flogger when it's more sexual. 

3.  How does he lecture?
Eric has a firm tone when he believes I am being taken advantage of or not being myself because of someone else.  In my fantasies, he takes his time asking me questions and forcing me to admit what is really going on in my head but we haven't really slowed down enough to play that all out.  We've tried a time or two but get all turned on and bypass straight to the physical.

4.  How does he position you?
Favorite position is over Eric's knee on a spanking chair in our room.  Second, and especially if the neighbors are home, we go in the walk-in closet and he'll have me hold onto the clothes racks while he spanks me. We also like over the bed, the back of the couch, the washing machine, and the kitchen counter.  Oh, and in the car, when we had the Tahoe.  Perfect fit over the center console. 

5.  How does he spank you?
Eric spanks me to clear my mind as a reset, to sexually arouse us both, or on the rare occasion as a punishment.  For the reset, he starts with clothes on and we talk a lot throughout.  He'll ask what I need.  He'll tell me to breathe through it and encourage me to take more as he knows it will ease my mind in the long run.  Sexually it's all about igniting my body, making me wet, and turning me on. When tiny beads of sweat break out along my back, he's got a sign that I'm jello in his hands. As for discipline, Eric will spank me hard enough that I eventually throw my hand back to cover my butt and then he know's he's got me at the edge.  He pins my hand down and then spanks five or six more times, fast and hard, and then I usually end up in the corner.

6.  How does he take care of you afterwards?
It is very rare, no matter what type of spanking, that we don't end up in bed afterwards.  Eric and I are extremely sexual partners and when we get physical, we tend to go there.  When he punishes me with the hairbrush, he'll always have me sit afterwards or stand in front of the mirror while he brushes my hair. If we are short on time, at the very least, Eric will always tell me this is done in love and that whatever the reason behind it, we've dealt with it and it is behind us.  Eric is very reassuring after any type of spanking and always makes sure I'm emotionally in a good place. Later, later, we always talk about what took place.  We learn a lot from those conversations.

7. How often does he spank you?
We go through phases for sure, depending on what's going on in life.  Sometimes I need it a lot more (like when I was in school and working), sometimes we are both wound up sexually and it'll be foreplay, and sometimes there just isn't enough time.  When Eric travels, it's hard but we've gotten to where I will spank myself over the phone so he can talk me through whatever.  When I'm sick or feeling down, or if I have any marks or bruises from a previous spanking, Eric will wait until I'm strong and healthy again.  That's a conversation we keep having because of all things, a quick spanking makes even those times feel better!  ;)

Amy



19 comments:

  1. Amy, this is a wonderful set of questions, and it feels like we have just sat down together for a lengthy chat about spanking. Honest and fresh! And I am so impressed that Eric was in on its creation.

    Since everyone in blogland seems to have their own version of this thing we do, I think there will be some very interesting adaptations of your meme.

    Loved the part about over the console in your vehicle! That's a good one.

    Hugs From Ella

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    1. Hello Ella and Happy Mother's Day weekend!
      I do miss that Tahoe. We sold it and neither of us realized what a big part of our dynamic that car played. LOL I hope people play along. we had fun answering our own questions. :)
      Amy

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  2. I love this post...and will answer these in a future post...BEST NEWS of all...for the first time in a long time I was able to just click and get to your blog....I had almost given up on that..hope it lasts!!!!! hugs abby

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    1. And now I can go back and read all the posts I have missed...hugs abby

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    2. Woo hoo! It's fixed and you are back from vacation. We both need to get to reading and writing again. I can't wait to hear your answers. :)
      Amy

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  3. Hi Amy,

    This is a great set of questions and I love that you developed this together. Really enjoyed reading your answers and learning a little about how ttwd works for you and Eric.

    So glad to hear your neighbours are now back home and recovering.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Yay Roz. Glad you enjoyed it. It's so nice having Eric home. We've been sharing so many ideas, fantasies, conversations, etc. I love it!!
      Amy

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  4. Loved the questions, Amy and Eric ... thoughtful and revealing. I very much enjoyed your answers and the insight of life in your ttwd/DD world ... nj

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    1. We are guessing everyone has their own spin on what works for them. Will be interesting to learn how others live this life!
      Amy

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  5. Hi Amy, nice meme, funny enough they are not generally about spanking out here. It is nice to hear from Eric too.
    love Jan,xx

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    1. Hi Jan, That's what we were saying. Most are personal on other topics but... well, we are all kinda here for the same reason. LOL
      Amy

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  6. Great meme! I really enjoyed hearing more about your dynamic. I'm so glad for both of you.

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    1. Thanks Olivia! We had fun and it's even better knowing my blog friends are enjoying it too.
      Amy

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  7. Great questions and answers. I really like this meme.

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    1. Hey Blondie! Nice to see you popping up here and there again. Missed ya!!
      Amy

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  8. You've whetted my appetite to maybe join in and do this meme. If Hoss will play along, all the better.

    Thanks!
    Baker

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    1. Yes yes yes! Get Hoss to play too. That's a great idea. This should be a couples meme.
      Amy

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  9. Wow, this would be 7 different posts for me... LOL! Amazing you guys got it all in one! I can't meme right now as my brain and body is absolutely exhausted from adrenaline rush this past week. But, I do have quite a few questions for you, of which, I shall e-mail you this week. I am learning from your posts..... thank you!

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