Sunday, March 4, 2018

March Matters

Traditionally, March is the month of Questions and Answers.

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Anyone who wants to play along need only ask a question in the comment section and throughout the month, posts will be created to answer what matters to you! So, ask away!! The more the merrier. Ask anything. Ask Amy or Eric! Feel free. The floor is yours.


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Uh oh. That looks like a spanking chair. You work on those questions and in the meantime, here's the latest at Eric and Amy's house.

My family came and went.  It was fantastic having everyone here and heartbreaking having them all leave.  My stitches are out and the knee is being tested each day with stretches and other painful physical therapy type exercises.  None of this is bad but I tanked and got gloomy and convinced my neighbor to have a pity party with me while Eric was golfing with some clients.  She brought ALL, not one, not a few, but ALL of my favorites.

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We gorged. Binged. Completely overdid it and then Eric came home to find me passed out on the couch surround by a bunch of candy, cookie, chips, and ice cream wrappers.  He woke me up and we had one of those "come to Jesus" conversations.  My knee is a lot better and I'm getting around a lot more.  Apparently, the moratorium on spanking due to an injury has been lifted.

Eric took me into the bathroom and helped me stand on the scale.  It was mortifying.  Horrible.  I was absolutely humiliated but then he surprised me and stepped on the scale himself.

"Look Amy," he said pointing to the numbers. "I'm in the worst shape of my life as well.  You've got the excuse of your surgery but I've been letting my job get in the way of my health and that's just not right. We're going to fix this together."

Ladies, have you ever dieted with a man before? Explain this to me. I can go to the gym and exercise for hours, eat the most perfectly balanced healthy meals of all time, and still barely lose two pounds per week. Eric can cut down on portion sizes, do a few sit-ups or take a walk, drink one extra water a day and BAM! Ten pounds down. Lucky, lucky, man.

Anyway, we agreed to both work on getting our eating down and then once the doctor approves it, adding exercise back as well.  It felt good having this goal and Eric said I can report his progress on FFF days too.  We are competing, of course, but this time not against each other.  We are competing against the extra weight and both plan to lose 15 pounds.  The game is, when we're each down 15 pounds, we will celebrate in a lovely hotel with crisp satin sheets and big fluffy pillows - a night to cherish and explore our new bodies. ;)

We left the scale with a plan and then Eric took matters into his own hands.  He got me settled over the kitchen counter in such a way that my knee was comfortable and unaffected.  Then he broke out the cheese board and I held on tight as my ass took fifteen hard smacks on each cheek.  It has been way too long since this girl got spanked and my body reacted quickly, sweat beads along my spine, head spinning, and butt on fire.

Eric stepped back. "Wow," he said. "I didn't realize how much I missed this."

It was like the man had just read my mind.  His fingers made their way to the button on my jeans and I waited patiently as he gently pulled them and my panties over my knee.  Half dressed in our kitchen, Eric grabbed a chair from the table and a pillow from the couch.  We managed to find a way for my knee to rest safely while my ass and Eric's hand made music. His "punishment" quickly became a sexual festival and we ended up making love with me bent over the table (a busted knee requires quite the work around).

Life has been slowly getting back to a somewhat normal pace since that day.  I've returned to work on a very part time basis and unfortunately, Eric will begin traveling again soon. We have our goals and the vision of our perfectly romantic night at the end of it all. I'm still emotionally up and down (blew is again and had an almond joy for breakfast!) but that's to be expected until I'm fully healed and back on my feet 100%. The tides of life, right?!

Anyway, ask those questions! We are open to answering anything.

Amy (and Eric)

23 comments:

  1. I am sorry, Amy, but I did laugh at the binge. I did warn you since I remember a knee surgery after which I proceeded to gain like 12 to 15 pounds laying with ice on my knee and nonstop Cheeto eating. Glad you have Eric to set you on the road to health.

    Hugs From Ella

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    1. You did warn me and I stayed as far away from Cheetos as possible. Who knew all the other crap would have the same affect?! I should have gone with the Cheetos.
      Amy

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  2. My question for you both is this...is there a part of you that does not enjoy the spanking aspect of your relationship? If so, what is it and why? What have you done to push past this barrier?

    I loved your binge eating piece. You definitely have an excellent friend to come to your aid for a binge.
    --Baker

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    1. Oh yes, I have many excellent friends willing to come to my aid when it's binge time. I just can't seem to find them when it's time to share a stalk of celery.
      Amy

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  3. This made me laugh also with your binge Amy. Also the almond joy for breakfast. LOL! Good plan you and Eric have made. Yes I know what its like to diet with a man. Totally not fair as they seem to shed their weight without any effort.
    My question...What are you favourite books both vanilla and TTWD? What's one item you always pack in your bag when going on holiday. Can both you and Eric answer that one please?
    Hugs Lindy xx

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    1. I was laughing too, until about an hour ago when Eric called from his late night meeting and asked if I knew who the king size almond joy wrapper stuffed in the downstairs restroom belonged to. Gulp.
      Amy

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  4. Hi Amy, well you knew you wouldn't get away with it really, both on the scales and with Eric! Time to get on track..... My question is when you buy clothes do you choose them based on Eric's preferences or yours? Do you wear things even if you know he wouldn't like them?
    love Jan, xx

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    1. You know what Jan, you are totally right. I feel more loved now than I have in my whole life because I found the guy who won't let me get away with it. The scale could cut me some slack though. That number CAN'T be right!
      Amy

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  5. Glad you're back on track with your diet and that the knee is getting better! Here's a question for you: When did you first realize that spanking was something that you wanted? Is there a story that goes with that?

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    1. Yes Olivia. The knee is getting much better. I'm finally starting to believe this will end and I will feel normal someday.
      Amy

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  6. Hi Amy, glad you had such a nice visit and that you are on the road to recovery. I understand the binging very well - glad Eric is there to help support you. Now, we know your favorite candies, what is your favorite food - meal, dessert, recipe...anything you wish to share. :-)

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    1. Hey Terps, What is it with binge eating? Eric doesn't do it and I seem to do plenty of it for both of us. Grrr.
      Amy

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  7. All the best questions have been asked, Amy ... can't wait to read your answers.
    Yes, it can be disheartening to play the scales game with a man ... they seem to lose 5 lbs to our 1! ... nj

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    1. Yes they do. Or based on today's weigh in - 10 to 1!
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  8. Amy,
    Loved your post as your knee heals and your bottom doesn't. Once these men find how a spanking works................
    Meredith

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    1. LOL - if the binge eating continues, so will everything else you loved in this post. ;0
      Amy

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  9. Happy that you are on the road to recovery. Here's a question - Do you have a spanking fantasy?

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Thank you Ronnie. The road seems so long but it's actually only been a month. Could have been worse and it did get my hubby home ten days early. :)
      Amy

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  10. It can be so helpful when the man in your life wants to eat right and work out with you... and so discouraging when it sees to be so much easier for them!!

    Questions:

    What’s something that happened or something that someone said that changed how you view the world?

    What BDSM or Kink-related thing have you not yet done that you want to try?

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    1. Right?! It's like he's showing me up all the time and yet, I'm incredibly impressed and motivated to keep up. Genetics. What the heck?! We're both working to lose weight but Eric can do it part-time and I've got to put in overtime for the same results!
      Amy

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  11. I feel your pain with the man vs. woman diet thing. Completely and totally unfair. Not to mention, my guy has never had an overweight day in his life. Sigh.

    Here's my question for you: How do you explain your need for a spanking so that Eric understands? Here's my question for Eric: How do you know when Amy needs a spanking?

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    1. Eric very kindly said something to the effect that I carry my weight well because of the size of my frame. Hmmm. I think that was a compliment or ... I'm not sure what to think other than I still need to lose fifteen pounds!
      Amy

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  12. Hi Amy,

    Sorry I am late to the party. Glad you had a wonderful time with the family and awesome that you and Eric are doing FFF together:)

    Questions: What is your favourite movie? Favourite childhood memory? Favourite implement?

    Hugs
    Roz

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