Amy: When Eric and I got close enough that we could tell each other anything in the world, even the things that were hard to admit to ourselves, it was easy. I had been self disciplining for years. When I told Eric what I did, when, and the results that I got, he was immediately willing to explore the possibility of him stepping in and becoming that helping hand so to speak. I think every husband wants to be able to help his wife when she is overwhelmed or not being her best self. Eric really took the time to understand what spanking did for me and then we were both surprised as to what it added to both of our lives. In the beginning, there was a lot of research and exploration before we actually did anything and we learned the ways that worked for us overtime. Initially, I would have been mortified if I had to ask for a spanking. I'd "brat" my way into one every now and then. I'd push Eric's buttons, taunt, and poke at him; hinting around that it would be a good time. Then once when he was about to leave for a long trip, we clashed. He was sure I was terribly unhappy about him going and I just wanted a good sound reset to keep me chugging along while he was gone. The long story short is, that was the worst trip ever because he was thinking one thing and I was thinking something else. Now, if Eric doesn't pick up on me getting out of control or really needing a trip over his knee, I tell him and he comes through like a champ. I still like it when he "catches" me off guard or being "bad" in a playful way. The hardest spankings are the ones where I screwed up and Eric knows the punishment is the only way I'll let go of the guilt. Oh my goodness. I've been rambling! Did I even answer your question?! "ERIC! It's time!!! Losing my mind again."
Eric: Three things: the amount of time that's gone by since the last time. How she's reacting to things in her life. Or, when she flat out tells me.
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