Tuesday, March 6, 2018

March Matters: Questions from Baker

Is there a part of you that does not enjoy the spanking aspect of your relationship? If so, what is it and why? What have you done to push past this barrier? 

Amy:  This is a very interesting question and one that I had to really think through before answering. I do not like the spanking itself. How's that for the aspect I don't enjoy?!  I love the anticipation, the lecture, the set up, the story line, the getting into position, and the way that my body reacts to it all. I love the feeling of Eric being the man-in-charge and taking me in hand for the purpose of making both of our lives better. However, during the actual event, I grit my teeth, clench my fists, go steely in my mind, and do my best to get through the pain of it. Then I find a rather peaceful bliss and I want more. We take breaks; corner time, the promise of another spanking before bed, etc. and then we'll start up again.  I find the building and layering of spankings enables us to get my mind, body, and soul to the place that we, as a couple, are trying to go.

Eric: Enjoy it all. No barriers. Lack of time, that's all.



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It's March and that is the month dedicated to answering what inquiring minds want to know.  Just leave a question in the comment section and we'll take it from there.

16 comments:

  1. Oh Eric, typical man, lol.
    love Jan, xx

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    1. He is the perfect man for me, but yes, a man through and through. ;)
      Amy

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  2. Hi Amy,

    Love your answer to this, there's nothing like the buildup and anticipation :) Love Eric's answer lol.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Hi Roz,
      I crave it. Love every minute of it. And oh, Eric is so good at it.
      Amy

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  3. Loved both your answers. The layering up is intriguing to get your mind, body and soul in the right place. I can just picture that.
    Hugs Lindy xx

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    1. Lindy,
      I think I'm a layered kind of person. I tend to tell Eric stories in layers. I like our disciplined life in layers. And, chocolate cake is best in layers!!
      Amy

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  4. Anticipation? Normally when I am waiting I am thinking, "willie you are an idiot! Why on EARTH did you think ttwd was a good idea to bring to the table!" After it is over I avoid the round two at ALL costs!!! LOL. Hours later I feel better. snort

    Eric sounds a bit like Barney- and resets. HOWEVER if he has to punish me he is annoyed that I 'forced his hand' and he didn't get to decide. MEN! But I can sort of respect that.

    Interesting question though

    willie

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    1. HaHa. I think the same thing you do (replace "willie" with "Amy") but I'm a little slow. I don't go there until the first strike of an implement and that's when the "WTF was I thinking?!" grabs hold.

      Eric never seems annoyed that he has to punish me but sometimes I wonder if we're still in the honeymoon stages of spankland. ;)

      Amy

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  5. You described your personal reactions so well, Amy. The feeling of him being in charge is such an important component of ttwd. Sometimes, it seems to be everything.

    Hugs From Ella

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    1. I make so many decisions throughout the day, it is truly a lovely break to have Eric take over for a bit. It's a relief to let go. Love that man. I'm going to go hug him right now. Maybe I'll slip and fall across his lap.
      Amy

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  6. I've been in a whirlwind lately so I'm making only one comment in response to all your answers. Loved reading and getting to know both you and Eric a little better. So glad you're here.

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    1. Thank you Leigh! That is very sweet of you. I'm with you. Question and answer month is so full of insight and we all get to know each other a lot better but it's hard to keep up!
      Amy

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  7. Thanks for answering my question. Truly insightful.
    --Baker

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  8. You are welcome! Have a wonderful day. :)
    Amy

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  9. The anticipation is not always a good thing for me...depending on the type of spanking, loved your explanation. hugs abby

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  10. time is always an issue...life gets busy...

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