Thank you for playing truth or dare with us. The dares will take a bit longer to complete but I thought it would be good to post the truths here. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving week. Hope everyone is happy, healthy, and hugged this year. After all, every spanking should be followed up with a hug. ;)
Cat: What are Eric's favorite and least favorite implements? What are Amy's favorite and least favorite implements?
Amy: Eric's favorite is a leather strap that fits perfectly in his hand. His least favorite implement is a small wooden cutting board that I gave him with grand visions of it landing across my cheeks. He's never used it, not even once. As for me, my favorite is Eric's black weave leather belt; for sentimental reasons I suppose. His hand, also a favorite. Especially when I'm over his knee. Least favorite? The slotted spoon. Hurts like hell and used only in punishment, never for pleasure.
Jan: How often do you provoke Eric into spanking you just because you fancy one? Or are you naturally naughty?
Amy and Eric: I would say I provoke Eric most often while he is traveling. Perhaps it is a bit of long distance foreplay, a little tease to keep us both going while he is gone. Naughty? Not really. Only when I'm provoked by my husband to act out. Mind you, Eric said he would answer your question differently. He says, "Amy Lynn? Naughty?" (Imagine a huge grin here.) "Let's just say, I've always got a reason to put her over my knee."
Katie: The post that you wrote, describing the wonderful, dinner, spankings and fun that Eric surprised you with recently was SO romantic! LOVED it! What other romantic adventures have you both had? If you could dream up another romantic scenario, what would it look like?
Amy: I will say, Eric is quite the romantic. He often surprises me with flowers, or better yet, plants that continue to bloom throughout the year. He will draw me a bath, brush my hair, and be a perfect gentleman when we are out. He sends playful texts and messages while he travels and he usually comes home with a bunch of "fun facts" about where he has been. I'll do a full blown post about my dream romantic scenario but most recently, he touched my heart with this... the last time Eric was traveling we were both spending a large amount of time talking about how horny we were, how much we wanted sex, how we couldn't wait to blank and blank and blank. He flew in fairly late and we were both completely wound up but the text he sent from the airport said, "I just want to make out with you." It was so sweet. A whole night of just soft, sensual kisses and then we drifted off in each other's arms.
Ella: Have you ever read that book, Consensual Spanking?
Amy: Sadly, I haven't read anything but text books in three years! Oh, except for Ronnie's books. I read those. Next, I plan to read PK's Cassie series. There are ten now! Do I start with one or ten? Help!
Deena: What is the most difficult part of this dynamic for each of you, and what is the best?
Amy: Hands down, the most difficult part for us is lack of time. We would do so much more but it's hard to be consistent with Eric's travel schedule and I've been in school for the past three years. Life gets in the way, you know?
The best part is, the dynamic has taught us to truly communicate well with each other and the closeness that has come from that is incredible. Also, neither of us holds onto emotional baggage anymore. Eric gets the physical release when he spanks me and I have no need to carry years of self inflicted guilt around. Emotional freedom. Oh, and some really fun and sexy play times as well. ;)
Lindy: With Eric traveling so much do you ever get a chance to go also? If so does he spank in motel rooms with his favourite strap or a quiet implement.
Amy: We tried, in the beginning, to have me join Eric on his work travels but it did not turn out well. When he's working, it is non-stop meetings and calls, long long days, and many long nights. I was alone a lot and then he would feel bad that we didn't get to do anything together. However, when we vacation together, especially at the beach, the spankings continue and in some cases, increase. Eric is very conscientious about not being too loud when we have relatives around. Hence, the wire hanger that seems to travel with us. However, when it's just us, that man holds back for nothing! Once we were in a hotel and I was just being really mouthy and obnoxious (Me? Certainly this was a one time thing) during a buffet breakfast. When we finished up, Eric went over to the kid making pancakes and asked if he could borrow his spatula because, "My wife has been begging for a spanking all morning." The poor boy looked like a deer in the headlights, but he handed it over and I got marched up to our room, spanked, and then had to return the implement to the dining room. I don't know who was more embarrassed. Me or the server!