Sunday, May 1, 2016

Implement Advice - looking for an intense spanking without the bruise

Whoah Nelly!

Three days out and the bruise on my left leg is wicked.  It doesn't hurt at all but it looks horrendous.

That said, the trip to the closet cleared my mind, calmed my nerves and pushed me through another insane set of work/school/family days.

Help us out please.

What implement can provide one hell-of-a spanking: intense and long lasting without leaving a bruise behind? Or was it the location (back of leg) more than the tool (small folded leather strap)?

Thank you in advance.

Amy (and Eric)

11 comments:

  1. It can be both. As time goes on your butt becomes 'damaged' and you no longer bruise regardless of the implement ( if you have a lot of severe impact play). When we first started my spankings were no where NEAR what they are now and I had a lot of markings to show for it. Now I rarely bruise unless the strikes land outside of the 'normal' areas of my thighs, and bum ( ie outter bum, inner thighs). That isn't to say it doesn't or can't happen still on my thighs, but that rarely happens now ( only if he attempting to take me to subspace and we are talking well over an hour on that journey). Swelling however still happens.

    All this to say that you may end up bruising for a while yet. You could try a really light implement like a ping pong paddle or back scratcher. I found the ping pong paddle just made a lot of noise and the back scratcher was meh. I suppose maybe a cane, but a lighter one. Honestly pain is subjective, so I am not sure if you are going to get a definitive answer. You'll have to just experiment.

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    1. Yikes! We have no canes. They look scary to me. Maybe I'll go for "meh". You crack me up. Amy

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  2. The most intensely painful absolutely no bruise impliment we have is the paddle my Man made. I believe it's oak. Covers both cheeks if he needs. Good God it is intense. I would say that I'm not sure it leaves the most lingering soreness though (so odd!)

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    1. Happy May Day - and thanks for the input. We'll see if Eric ever makes a paddle. He's too busy to do anything but travel right now. Sigh. Back at it. Amy

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  3. Hi Amy, I would say not the cane, they do leave marks. I think maybe you will bruise less if you have a proper warm up and really does it need to be that hard, wouldn't a longer not quite so hard session work just as well. My husband must be skilled now as I very rarely have bruises!
    love Jan, xx

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    1. Hi Jan, Maybe we did go a bit overboard but at the time, it didn't seem like it. The idea of a cane scares me and Eric feels really bad that I have this silly bruise... Amy

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  4. Amy if you are still on D and L, please do a search under the name Desmond and Warm Ups. This is really important information to know if you intend to continue with high impact, (not lighter spankings). Basically he says that warming up ( with scientific reasoning to back him up that escapes me now~ he's in the health care field) prepares a submissive to take more pain, causing more damage to your nerve endings etc in the long run. TRUST me on this one.

    The real reason 'most' (not all) people no longer bruise after a while is due to the permanent damage to their back ends-hence my comment about bruising on the outside not on my bum anymore. This is something you really don't want

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    1. Yikes! We'll look it up. Sounds terrible. Permanent damage? Neither of us wants any kind of damage. Amy

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  5. Amy, I'm with Jan on this one after a proper warming up hopefully you wouldn't bruise. Bruises are a badge of honour though with some. I've only bruised once when I was given the belt several nights in a row. The bruises didn't worry me though, it was just hard sitting down on a wooden bench.
    Good luck.
    Hugs Lindy

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  6. Hi Lindy! How've you been? Nice to hear from you. The bruise doesn't hurt but it's kind of low so I'm having to forgo some of my favorite clothes right now. No biggie but in the future, we'd like all the "love" without the marks. :) Amy

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  7. I have to agree with a proper warm-up goes a long ways towards no bruising. Location also slightly. Canes always leave me with a lasting reminder..and i do think that your bottom 'toughens up...sorry i am so late with this..
    hugs abby

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