Thursday, November 19, 2015

Do you ever reverse roles? Spank the HOH?

Eric is out of town on his birthday so I'm surprising him tomorrow - a little more than a week early.

I've got lots of plans and lots of gifts but I'm wondering about the tradition of spanking the birthday person.

We just recently discovered that we both like him spanking me, but we've never flipped it.  I have no desire to punish him, nor do I think he would have an interest in that.  However, a birthday spanking and a pinch to grow an inch?  He is getting a flogger as one of his gifts (sounded too good to pass up).  Dare I try it on him first?!

Amy

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  1. Oh Amy,you haven't quite got it !! You get his spanking, there's no question about it. Don't get your hopes up of spanking him sweetie, not going to happen. Speaking as a blogger with lots of blogger mates out here, there is not one who gets to spank the hoh on his birthday. Get ready to take one for the team, lol
    Hope he has a great Birthday
    love Jan,xx

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    1. Hello Jan,
      You were 100% right on this one and I did take it for the team. Who knew 55 was such a BIG number?! Eric had a fabulous birthday but the look on his face when I suggested I give the flogger a go... yah. He was pretty clear. Have a great weekend! Amy

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  2. Hi Amy, I had this exact question on DOWNUNDER DREAMING recently about reversing the roles. Everyone said they preferred to be spanked. Even when it is the HOHs birthday you are the one on the receiving end of the birthday spanking. So be prepared and good luck.
    Happy birthday to Eric.

    Hugs Lindy

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    1. Hi Lindy, Eric says thank you for the birthday wish and yes, I got the magical 55 today. Totally fun but another reality check for me in this world we are exploring. Glad you and Jan gave me a heads up! ;) Amy

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  3. Barney always lets me swat him ONCE with a new implement. NO MORE than that. Basically it is so he can gauge what it is like. Mind you this is the same man who can't put his hands in my hot dishwater or complains about my shower temperature, so I'm not sure that is really why he lets me do it. LOL

    But he looks me directly in my eyes and says, "ONE. Have your fun". It is always over way too quickly. Snort.

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    1. Hello Willie! This girl got the birthday 55 (I should have married a younger man, lol) and then, when little mouthy me suggested that I get to swat him ONCE with the flogger (seemed reasonable and Barney let you do it), I got 55 more! Eric is a good sport, though. After round two, I did get to show him "ONCE". We were both laughing so hard by then, I doubt he even felt it. Have a fun weekend!! Amy

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  4. Ha, nope. You get to take his birthday spanking. You could try throwing a fit about unfairness and his growing old age and see how that works out... Don't ask me how I know these things. I just know stuff. Have fun! :)

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    1. Susie, You do know stuff and naturally, I did throw a fit (see my comment to Wilma) and now I know double stuff. Oh my gosh, we had so much fun though. Happy Friday!! Amy

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  5. Happy (late) birthday to Eric! Glad it was a fun birthday spanking for you both!!
    XOXO Pearl

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